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A LETTER TO MY FOUR-YEAR-OLD TEENAGER!!

Dear Alisha,

I hope this letter finds you well and happy. As you continue to grow and navigate through your teenage years, I want to share some thoughts and advice that might help you during this exciting yet sometimes challenging time of your life.


Life is a journey filled with ups and downs, joys and challenges. One of the most important things to remember is that you are valuable and worthy just as you are. Sometimes, you might encounter friends who don't appreciate you or make you feel unimportant. It's crucial to recognize that true friends will value you for who you are, support you, and stand by you through thick and thin. Don't be afraid to distance yourself from those who don't treat you with the respect and kindness you deserve. Surround yourself with people who lift you, not bring you down.


Adolescence is a time of great change, both physically and emotionally. It's a period where you begin to discover more about yourself and the world around you. You might experience new emotions and face situations that you haven't encountered before. Remember that it's okay to feel confused or overwhelmed at times. It's all part of growing up.


When it comes to love and relationships, take things one step at a time. It's natural to develop feelings for others and to want to explore romantic relationships. However, always prioritize respect and honesty in any relationship. It's important to build connections based on trust, mutual understanding, and genuine care for one another. Remember, someone else's opinion of you does not define your self-worth.

Academics might seem like just another part of your daily routine, but they play a crucial role in shaping your future. The knowledge and skills you gain through your education will open doors to opportunities and help you achieve your dreams. It's not just about getting good grades, but about developing a curious mind, learning how to solve problems, and understanding the world better.


Your education is an investment in yourself. It can lead to a fulfilling career, financial independence, and the ability to make informed decisions about your life. So, even when the going gets tough, stay focused and motivated. Dedicate yourself to your studies and remember that the effort you put in now will pay off in the future.


Life is a beautiful journey with many paths to explore. Embrace each experience with an open heart and mind. Cherish your true friends, nurture healthy relationships, and always strive to learn and grow. Believe in yourself and your abilities and know that you have the power to create a bright and successful future.

I'm always here for you, cheering you on and ready to support you in any way I can. Keep being the amazing person you are, and never forget how much you are loved. 

With all my love and encouragement,

Your Dad, Jamilu




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